Friday, April 17, 2015

Parents & Children Relationships

Dear parents, please give quality time to your children before it’s too late. Value your child’s innocent and crucial phase of childhood because your time is the backbone of your child’s successful future and nature. Researches put a stamp on this- ‘The first five years are significantly crucial for the development of the brain of the child. The first three years play the most critical role in shaping the brain architecture of the child. As a matter of fact, early experiences constitute the base for the organizational development of his brain and its functioning throughout life. They cast a direct impact on how children develop learning skills and also on their social as well as emotional abilities. It has been found that babies and young children grow, learn and develop rapidly when they are brought up in an environment characterized with love, affection, along with nutritious meals and good health care.’

O Grown Ups! Realize the importance of your parent’s ‘OLDAGE PHASE’ before it’s too late…….

Think about your parents. All through their life, they support you in each and every manner, irrespective of their health or wealth and that too with big smiles on their faces!

But, what we do? We are least bothered about them when they need us in their old age. Their presences frustrate us! We behave just like this child-

A child once made a phone call to some online account system with a strange complaint. He said, "Sir, when I am typing my password, it shows only stars and stars."

From the other side, a reply came- "Well, these stars protect your account from getting hacked."
Child: Uh! Sir, I understand. But, my problem is that they come even when I am alone.

These stars can be very well related to the protection shield provided by the parents to their children. The child deemed the stars as essential when sitting with others; similarly, when we are young and dependent, we find the unconditional care and concern of the parents to be important. We take the maximum benefit of this protection cover. But it's really sad that when we grow up and become capable of living life on our own terms, we just find the their care and concern unnecessary, as the child found the stars unwanted when he was alone. The same protection shield turns into a problem, a burden for us, i.e. their presence becomes irritating and troublesome for us! Like that child, we also fail to realize that the protection provided by the  parents is all-time necessary, in whatever phase of life we may be!

Thus, O Grown-ups! Don't forget that our loving and caring parents are, in reality, a very precious gift given to us by God. Their blessings make us successful in life. Therefore, realize their importance and respect their old age before it's too late..... 

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